Category: Ladies
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When Love Loses Its Meaning
Healing is revealing You went in with your heart all wide open with an understanding that love is on the other side of the fence. You then became frustrated, vulnerable and mad as hell. You hold wilted flowers in one hand and toss your Starbucks coffee onto the sidewalk with the other. You slowly walked through…
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Cold Feet?
Some women are so hurt and disappointed with men they’ll remember to close their hearts but forget and keep their legs open. Look homie you just phucked up so now it’s time to hustle, hit the boards and rebound after a missed shot. Whenever you find yourself in the hot seat, paint a picture for…
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His Cellie
(11:45pm) The phone rings and as he makes his way out of the bedroom and enters the kitchen for a little more privacy and discreteness. Him: Baby you know I can’t wait until I get my car. The phuckin bus broke down and I’m almost home. Just so you know, I hate public transportation. Her: …
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His Hidden Agenda
Real talk baby gurl, he’s gay and it’s better to get over it now instead of crying about it later. He has gay tendencies. For the record, I don’t have any problem with the homosexual community. I don’t care if you’re gay, bi-curious, straight or just straight up different. If it works for you I’m…
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Dear God…
Dear God What have you placed in my hands? Please help me understand why I am the way that I am. I have so much room for improvement. I’m in desperate need to have you close to me… Why am I a horrible father? Why was I a horrible husband? Why am I a poor…
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No Mistakes
There are no mistakes, only experiences… Food for thought, grab a plate. Then relate Harlem, Heaven is at the foot of Mother…
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Ladies
Don’t choose the better guy. Choose the guy that makes you a better woman. Food for thought. Grab a plate. Harlem, Heaven is at the foot of Mother…
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Overrated
Young man being married is overrated. Don’t be fooled and save yourself the trouble of finding out the hard way. Stay single for as long as possible and keep your money in your pocket. Save, invest, put it in an IRA and 401K account but don’t you ever put your money in the hands of…
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Intermission
Fo Da Ladies… Don’t forget to click or cut & paste into your web browser to receive your intermission treat. I will admit I’ve been holding out. Follow me on twitter @harlematltibbs & check out Enter Harlem’s Corner at Tumblr ( The Pinterest site is under construction.) where you will find Harlem’s Heavy Hitters, Harlem…
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So You’re Celibate
Don’t think it’s right to call yourself “Celibate” if you play with yourself or own sex toys and use them when necessary. That’s not being celibate that’s called “Something Else”. You’re fooling yourself if you view it differently. Single Dads: If you are home with the kids or if you just have them over for…
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Girlfriend
Girlfriend When a man stops trying to give his woman the world and all that she deserves and he simply stops trying. It’s called loosing interest. When a woman steps out on a man especially when he’s full of lies and deceit. That’s not called cheating. It’s called common sense as she moves forward with…
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Driving Mz Hazel
After Mz. Hazel left Brutha couldn’t get her out of his mind. He wanted to send for her return. I want to take off her clothes, place her on the bed and go low, lick her entire body real slow, and taste all of her sweetness. Driving Mz Hazel When she met him she was…