Category: Single

A Glimmer Of Hope

Girlfriend brought a whole new meaning to “We Sick” to the doctors office.  When she sneezed it was I who caught the cold.  Needless to say, I was left standing, freezing in the North Dakota wind holding the ole carrot from a memory of what could have been.  As a child, I didn’t understand.  Now I

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Harlem Fetish Part 3: Sexy Evening Attire

Keep on your sweat pants and long t-shirts and see how long it takes for him to come home.  What will it take to make him run home? Back to basics.  It’s really not rocket science. Harlem Fetish: Sexy Evening Attire – Water Never Looked So Good Harlem Fetish: Sexy Evening Attire – Listening To

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The Winner Is…

 So what my lips are like soup coolers.  They get the job done.  I haven’t any complaints either. Hey, I’m a good guy and far from being a dog of a man on any level.  Life is complicated enough don’t you think?  The Winner Is… I just like to have my options open before making the wrong decision.  I don’t

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Love Him Unconditionally

 No good man should be left alone. Ladies, walk with me if you will.  Should you ever experience a good man remember these words. Love Him Unconditionally “You will show me the path of life” It is not good for “this” man to be alone; the man that is in the presence of the Creator, who

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The Dumb Shit Men Do

Beauty is a beast all by itself but a good woman, an educated woman is the type of woman that make a man storm the beach or die trying. The Dumb Shit Men Do   Ah yeah, you already know who I be, constantly doin me, sliding through your hood on that dumb shit fo all to

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Child Support: Anger, Bitterness & Spitefulness

 The good ole relationship and the days of Nana and Poppa are long behind us.  Almost nobody is retiring from a job after 20 years and only a few can say they worked at one place for as long to retire from.  The same can be said about lasting relationships.  Child Support: Anger, Bitterness & Spitefulness Today, in this microwave

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What is Your Why?

Nothing great is achieved until you step outside your comfort zone.  It was a painful and shameful experience being a four time loser.  Her unsettling gesture of disapproval.  The needless suffering of children…  Another fatherless household.   Years ago, while living in New York and thinking I was a man when in reality I was functioning like

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When Love Loses Its Meaning

Healing is revealing You went in with your heart all wide open with an understanding that love is on the other side of the fence. You then became frustrated, vulnerable and mad as hell. You hold wilted flowers in one hand and toss your Starbucks coffee onto the sidewalk with the other. You slowly walked through

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Cold Feet?

Some women are so hurt and disappointed with men they’ll remember to close their hearts but forget and keep their legs open. Look homie you just phucked up so now it’s time to hustle, hit the boards and rebound after a missed shot. Whenever you find yourself in the hot seat, paint a picture for

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His Cellie

(11:45pm) The phone rings and as he makes his way out of the bedroom and enters the kitchen for a little more privacy and discreteness. Him:  Baby you know I can’t wait until I get my car. The phuckin bus broke down and I’m almost home. Just so you know, I hate public transportation. Her: 

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His Hidden Agenda

Real talk baby gurl, he’s gay and it’s better to get over it now instead of crying about it later. He has gay tendencies. For the record, I don’t have any problem with the homosexual community. I don’t care if you’re gay, bi-curious, straight or just straight up different. If it works for you I’m

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Dear God…

Dear God What have you placed in my hands? Please help me understand why I am the way that I am. I have so much room for improvement. I’m in desperate need to have you close to me… Why am I a horrible father? Why was I a horrible husband? Why am I a poor

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